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I know about mental health issues, You have your family that loves you, and you love them. Just do your best,and we will pray for you and the family. God bless you ❤❤❤

I to have anxiety and depression. I have taken medicine for years. What I have learned is it's better to go on a lower maintenance dose rather than quit all together. I hope you feel more like yourself soon.

I want you to know you are not alone, I’m so sorry you are going through this. The person saying all of those horrible things should be ashamed of themselves. My thoughts and prayers are with you!!🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

Love you both, will be praying for you all.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Bobby, First of all thank you for your service. I worked at the VA Hospital in Albany, NY for 25 years. I was married to a veteran who had ptsd. I do understand your condition. My prayers are with you and Cambria and your family. Please hang in there I know family can make your life hell.

If I remember correctly in a video from a few years ago when Bobby took a cross country car trip with the little boys it was Grandma who talked by phone through much of the night to make sure that Bobby would stay awake and drive safely. The current situation is complicated for many reasons but I can only imagine that Grandma wants what is best for Bobby and all of the family. As difficult as it must be to share such a personal story for Bobby it is likely that he helped others struggling and in need of support. Get whatever outside help is needed and take one day at a time to recover. There are so many supporters among those that follow your family channel which I hope provides some comfort and perspective.

I understand What you're going through very well. I was admitted to a facility. Few years ago wasn't easy. But it helped me. And today I'm here feeling fine. And I know you could do it. You did it once, and you will do it again Your both are brave and you have an amazing family to live for. And I know God is with you every step of the way. I'll be praying for you and your family. All my love and blessings one day at a time❤

So sorry you all are going through this. Praying for you all. Thanks for the video!

Praying for all good things. Love y’all ♥️

Thinking about you all and sending positive thoughts. We will be there for you when able to share your lives with us. Take your time and heal ❤

I’m sorry you are both going thru this and hope you feel better soon Bobby.

Hey Bobby. You didn’t fail at all. You stepped in to help family when they needed it because your grandma was no longer safe living on her own. Cleaning out her home and selling it was inevitable. Now it’s time for family to step in and help you because you need that right now. That’s what family does. No shame in that at all. Let any shame and negativity go and give yourself the same love and understanding that you would show to someone else in your position. Caretaking is no joke. Cambreia, take care of yourself as you take care of your family. Wishing you peace of mind and much love.

My prayers 🙏🏻 are with you both! Hour by hour. While I haven't had to deal with the PTSD demons and chemical imbalances that happen, I have been suicidal at different times in my life. I'm glad you're getting help and realizing boundaries. Don't worry about videos - just focus on you. (You could always be a video 💥er) - bad dad joke 🙏🏻 Again praying for everyone..

I’m so sorry that you and your family are going through this. I’m glad you’re getting help. Bobby just work on you. Sending love and prayers to you and your family ❤

Hi cambriea and Bobby you both are amazing couple and parent,s Bobby I,have so much respect for you and all the soldiers my Brother he was a soldier too please take care of yourself you be and my prayers god bless you and your family💜💛💜💛💛💛🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Bobby, you saved Grandma Gloria when she needed saving. The time will come when you do it again. You are not a failure. You gave her time with the kids to get to know them, and. You gave your kids the time to know her and to learn that there will come a time when they will have to step up for one of their elders. Job well done! Grandma will do fine back at home with her son and good friends i pray. Please keep us up to speed on your emotions and progress..we care! Cambria,hang in there Z, rest and get as much relaxation as you can.❤❤

Don’t ever think you are or have been a failure to everyone. You are the best thing that’s happened to them. Now it’s Bobby time. You take care of you now and the rest will fall into place🙏🙏🙏🙏

I just had a baby last year and i still regularly use a lot of items you mentioned 😅 i really think it just depends on the individual and their baby’s needs. I feel like you gave good tips on things not to buy before the baby arrives because you may not need them.. but a few months into having a newborn i bought a bottle warmer, darker curtains, baby nail clippers, a baby bath, and a bunch of things you mentioned because we ended up needing them. also some of these items can be pricey if you buy brand new. I highly encourage new moms to buy things gently used from resale stores, marketplace, and yard sales. We furnished our entire nursery with second hand furniture. No regrets. Much love to you cambriea! I look forward to your videos!

Bobby and Cambia I am so very sorry you’re going through this. Please know that we love you, and will pray for you to have peace of mind. Keep loving and supporting each other 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

God bless you Bobby for being brave enough to talk about this. I'll be praying for you. Its obvious you are so loved by your family but also by many of us ❤ Cambriea, you are an amazing woman and your actions do not go unnoticed. Sending so much love and prayers your way ❤

I sure hope Bobby gets the help he needs.Its hard for family to watch you go thru this.I will pray for you and your family.

My husband committed suicide, forty years ago I still haven’t gotten over it. I’m so glad you recognize you need help. Please take care of yourself Bobby you have a wife and kids that need you.

Prayers for your family. I love you you all.❤❤

I'm so sorry about the family chaos. Bobby I can not stress this enough....thank you for sharing. I care about you even though I've never probably met you and your family. You are correct Florida is the best state I live in Daytona near y'all. Please please please please please please ride your motorcycle more. My husband fights these thoughts and I encouraged him to buy a motorcycle. He rides it as much as humanly possible and it helps do so much. Please don't give up the fight. Please. And Cambriea. I love you so much as a friend. You have gotten me through so much and helped me grow as a mother, wife, friend, home maker. Truly from the bottom of my heart thank you. I'm so sorry you guys are going through this. I will pass this info. You guys got to spend time with Grandma. She loves you for that. Everything else will work out. Just work on yourselves and remember to hug each other every chance you get, it really does help heal men of those thoughts. And back scratches. Lots of back scratches, Just moments he feels are just his. Bobby we love you man. WHEN IN DOUBT, THROTTLE IT OUT 🏍️💨

Great video, proud of both you guys. When Gramma leaves it will be a lot off your mind. Caretakers have a big job. I was my mother caregiver until she passed last year in October. Trying not to sound rude but it is for your mental health and your family well being. I think you should just take it easy for awhile. I support you fully. And try to stop looking at those messages all together. You got this Bobby.😊 Take care.

Sending you lots of love. ❤️ You are not a failure. ❤️ Take care of yourself. ❤️

BOBBY…you were a soldier & you ARE STILL A WARRIOR. The battle you fight daily is the most difficult. Because it is a silent battle. You have been trying to fight that battle & those voices/thoughts in your head on your own. I know exactly what you mean, how you felt & feel. I also understand having older family members like my Dad that are of a different generation & mindset. Don’t let the tough days win!! I don’t know if you have heard this song or not but I HIGHLY recommend it. The words are so powerful. Rachel Platten ~ Bad Thoughts. It kind of became my song when I needed it. I cried listening to it because it hit so close to home. Celebrate those little victories & keep taking one step & day at a time. Keeping a journal also helped me when I needed to get stuff out but didn’t want to “bother anyone”. Because in there you can be 100% honest. Mental health illness never goes away. It might improve & become better over time, medication & therapy but it is always there. Loosing your purpose & getting stuck in your head is a bad place. Add on all of the other contributing factors would be enough for anyone to be done. Hang in there. Not just for your family but yourself. YOU MATTER & YOU ARE WORTH IT!! SHAME on “those” on line bullies for the words/contents they said. About your family. Below is for them. 1…Grab a plate & throw it on the ground. Done. 2….Did it break? Yes 3….Now say sorry to it. Sorry 4~Did it go back to the way it was? No Do you understand?? Once hurtful words are said they can’t be unheard. The damage is done. 💜💙💜💙 ;

You are very courageous. I think you are doing what is best for everyone. Love to you and your family.

Sending prayers for your family. The biggest blessing is that you're aware of the issues. That Cambria is such a rock for you. Bless you for being vulnerable and sharing because someone may need what you have shared. Continue to work on you, Bobby, and this community will support you and your family. Thank you for being responsible with your family even though it's super hard. Bless you

Bobby you are stronger than you think you are. You did not fail your sweet grandma at all! You're heart was in the right place. You guys saw she needed help and you did something about it and went above and beyond for her more than anybody else did. Those family members who made those disgusting comments about you and Cambria are the losers in my opinion. This was a time for the family to work together for grandma and not be petty, spiteful and jealous. Boo hoo they did'nt get an invite. Family should'nt wait for an invite, they could of stepped up and spent time with grandma too. They are the ones looking to get money or stuff after grandma passes, that is where those comments clearly originate from, greed not love! I will be keeping you and Cambria and your kids in my prayers. You are a warrior and survivor and you will win this battle! Hold eachother close and make yourself the priority right now. You ca'nt pour from an empty cup. Your wife and kids need you and your followers need you to keep living and win this temporary battle against your mental health. No shame in being a little selfish right now so you can preserve yourself and get back to those who love you and those you love.

Hi Bobby. I don’t comment much though i watch all the time. I have ptsd do to a car accident in 1999. I am 63 now, all you say is so true. I also have other medical conditions. I have gone through so much therapy with out not much result. I thank God that every time i feel so bad i have learn that i have to remember that God made me perfect. We all are made to his image. In your case you have a beautiful family and God is blessing you with another bundle of Joy. What has been working for me is to refocus the negative thoughts. I also learn to deep breathing. JUST REMEMBER,YOU MUST TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF SO YOU CAN ENJOY THE BEAUTIFUL THINGS. EX. WALKING FREA THROUGHT THE ISLE. KIDS GRADUATIONS, AND SO MUCH MORE. NO MATTER HOW MUCH MEDICATION OR THERAPY, YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF THE BLESSING GOD HAS GIVEN YOU. I TILL HAVE THE SAME SYMTOMS, NO SLEEPPING, HOPELESS, SUICIDAL THOUGHT AND CHRONIC PAIN I DEAL DAILY. I TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME. YOUR WIFE AND CHILDREN ARE THERE FOR YOU REGARDLESS. THEY ARE YOUR DIMONDS SHINNING. FOCUS MY FRIEND. REMEMBER YOU ARE IN CONTROL, DONT LET SATAN WIN. HE IS NOT IN CHARGE. REBUC ALL THE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS. I LIVE IN FLORIDA TOO, IN CAPE CORAL. I KNOW THAT MY PTSD IS NOT CAUSE BY THE SAME CIRCUMSTANCE BUT STILL IT HAS THE SAME EFFECT AND SYMTOMS. I LEARNED TO REAJUST to the active live i had. I was a social worker in New Jersey. I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOUR FAST RECOVERY. YOU GOT THIS. WHEN YOU ARE DOWN , LOOK UP AT THE BEAUTIFULL CREATION NOT FORGETING THAT YOU ARE GODS BEST ONE TO THE POINT THAT HE GAVE YOU HIS BREATH OF LIVE. BLESSINGS. DONT FEEL BAD ABOUT GRANDM

All my prayers to you 🙏🏻 stay strong 🙏🏻

Bobby, sending you hugs and prayers!

Sending love and prayers

You not a bad person you going through a lot things right now and your health is the most thing to get help you need

Retired VA nurse here…Bobby you are so respected and appreciated for all you have done. I cared for many combat Veterans. You are incredibly brave to share this to help others. And you’re insightful to see the signs of trouble. Stick with good old Bailey; keep him around you when you can; he can really help you more than you think. Hug him a lot, he loves ya. Thank you for your service. ❤️ All the best to you and Cambriea. Darla

Aloha Bobby so sorry that you're going through this. We send prayers to you and your whole family ❤️ 🙏 you got this 👍 🙏 no worries Bobby take care of yourself first.❤

Thank you for sharing this very difficult situation you are facing! Being honest is so important. Praying for you!

💙💙💙Listen, NO ONE FAILED ANYTHING. You did your best. I also have been and gone through this with my hubby he is retired group.( I think that said pretty much everything.) Bobby, you hang in there. YOU got this. Cambriea, if you need someone to talk, that gets it reach out. I'm here. It's rough. Believe me I know. Both of you be strong this to shall pass with time. Remember this 1 foot in front of the other and day by day. My prayers to you all.🙏💙💙💙

Hey Bobby & Cambriea, I am praying for you guys! Thanks Bobby so much for your service to our country! My heart goes out to you all! I pray that your Grandma will adjust and be ok!!🙏🙏

Wow - you both are super vulnerable and I know you helped at least one person today. We need to keep the light shined on this and not let it be a shameful “hide in the dark” thing.

I'm so sorry to learn what your family has been going through. So, so unbelievably difficult. Bobby, you are a very brave man to recognize and reach out for help. That takes such courage. The fact that you have shared with us, your RUclips family, shows even more courage. It is hard to be vulnerable. Very, very tough decisions regarding Grandma, but totally understand. It's difficult times like these when you need the help of family to forge a new path. Thank you for spreading awareness of PTSD. ❤ Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family and for full and complete healing. 🤗🙏🤗🙏🤗🙏

So sorry you're going through this. I hope that life calms down enough to a manageable level. Take care of yourselves. 💜

Praying for y’all ❤

I hope all goes well I sure understand sorry bobby bout ur issues it's not easy hope all gets better for you n they can help you

I am so sorry that you guys are going through this! All of my best to you guys and to bettering. I can relate bc I have depression and anxiety really bad. I speak with a therapist. I recently had surgery to get a hysterectomy and it’s partial but even though with that said my mental health has gone worse and with going through menopause it’s taken a toll on me. Everyone thinks I should get a psychologist and get meds I never wanted to go on meds but times I’ve had thoughts but been beginning to think maybe it will help me. I’m so sorry that this is happening my heart is with you guys so much. Animals I feel def know my 2 cats the 1 cat he hasn’t been near me lately since surgery when I got home but the other cat has it upsets me my other cat won’t really go near me though but I’m just taken things day by day try and surround myself by friends even though I feel like things are going with my friends now and my family I have things going on too everything g is just a. Lot but I can relate thank you for talking about this Bobby & being opening about it. And Cambriea and you are in my thoughts and the immediate family too💜

I have been watching both of your channels for a short time now. I fell in love with you both. You both are so likable and loving! I have depression and anxiety. Which is not easy to deal with at times. I hope that Bobby, you will be able to get the help you need and come back when you are ready. I haven’t been suicidal, I am so sorry you have to deal with this difficult time. Years ago I would say things like just shoot me and put me out of my misery. I used to wonder what it would feel like to drive off the road. I never tried but I couldn’t help the thoughts. At one time I tried a few therapist but they didn’t help me. I was having trouble with my mom and sister at one point and the therapist made out like I was the problem. I have had to pray a lot. I have one friend now I can tell anything to and it helps to have a friend like her. I hope you get better soon, so you will be there for your family and the new baby. Sending lots of love and prayers.

Bobby you are doing the best you can, I’m a grandmother and I can tell you all I would want is for my children and grandchildren to be happy and in a good place! This experience that you and your family have had has been a blessing and privilege. But your family has to come first! God bless you and your family, you are all in my prayers

Bobby, I have so much espect for you and Cambriea. This is not easy to talk about. Dealing with depression is complicated and serious and I am so glad you are dealing with this the right way!! Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem and you know what you need for yourself. We love you all so much and want you healthy!! Yes, Grandma will be fine!! Your intentions were honest and wonderful but it is what it is. She loves you and you love her!! Time will heal with family!! Christmas will be here before you know it a new beautiful baby too!! Life is so good!! Bless you all!! God is with you.

I’m praying for you guys🙏🏻❤️